Man: Focused on work. No flirting allowed for GCGs. Shame on you.
GCG: [sends lingerie photo]
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Ted D says:
September 4, 2014 at 11:57 am
PJ – “Why did you ex wife have to “talk herself into having sex” with you?”
It’s a long story, but very typical. The short version:
1. Met wife gigging in band. (Situational alpha I suppose)
2. Dated (lots of hot sex)
3. Married. (Still decent sex)
4. About 4 years in she started complaining that my “band hobby” was taking too much time away from home. Newborn son was stressing her out, and I thought the right thing to do was quit gigging and be home more. (Stupid critical mistake among many to follow)
5. She started getting bored with me because I stopped being interesting.
6. Eventual “I love you but I’m not in love with you” speech. By this time sex was at best once a month. (And I can guess where she was in her cycle that one day a month…)
I pussed out, but only because I was clueless about what made me attractive. I never put any faith in the band thing, because “good girls don’t go for bad boys” and all that. I actually thought the attention I got playing out was because of my talent. Lol (not saying I suck, but 90% of people that see live music have no idea how much talent a musician does or doesn’t have. They either like it or not.) so when my ex started complaining I did the dutiful beta thing and folded to her demands. Which led to a divorce, no surprise to me now.
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